Never do anything for anyone, do only for yourself. Sound selfish, but herein lies the secret of being selfless.
With relationships often are attached words like sacrifice, compromise, and adjustment. Each word sounds more like suffering rather than happiness. Relationships give us the opportunity to do a lot for others, but we need to check our intention. If we think we are doing it for them, then we could be doing it outwardly but not necessarily be happy inside. If we have negative thoughts of unwillingness or resentment and we do the right action, neither we nor they will be happy because they will receive our mental energy. And then we will feel we did so much for them and they are still not happy. Before doing anything, introspect – why do I want to do it … because they will be happy …why do I want them to be happy…because they matter to me and there will be harmony in the relationship…if there is harmony, I will be happy…so I am doing it for my happiness, not for them. Check betting slips that could help.
Just think about this :
We should have a positive attitude toward life whatever the situation we are in, we should gracefully accept it without complaining. It is only if we show a spirit of compromise and adjustment, life would be a fulfilling experience for us. It would be possible only when we love the life we live.
